Thoughts From a Navy Girl’s Mother

Bethy 3

My daughter Bethany is in the Navy.Right now she is out on the ocean on a big ship and I can’t just pick up the phone and talk to her like I normally do when I miss her.Now we email.She knows I love her with all of my heart but I wonder if she knows how much I appreciate how much she loves me and that it has taken me a long time to realize that.

Bethany came to this family when she was fifteen months old.If you haven’t read about it my little post Home Made or Imported That is the Question give it a look now.I have loved this beautiful creature since the minute I laid eyes on her.She was scared of everything at first and  wouldn’t go from the living room carpet to the linoleum in the kitchen.To think that now she is so far away from home on a ship and loving her job is almost unimaginable to me.

The reason I need to write this is to let her know how important she is to me.We have had our ups and downs and at times I am sure she thought I was from another planet.Sometimes I wasn’t understanding and maybe expected too much but I always wanted what was best for her.I now realize that when she was looking for her heritage it wasn’t because she wanted a new family,it was because she needed to know where she came from.I would do the same.Maybe what she doesn’t know was that I wanted to go on that journey with her.I wanted to be there when she needed me and I needed reassurance that she wanted me and not them.I hope that Bethany thinks back on our life together as I do my childhood with pride and the knowledge that her mother and father in this tiny town of Owendale were a spring board for the adventures that she now has.I want for her to think of a pink bedroom that she shared with a little Wheel as a soft place to fall and I hope when ever she sees the word home it reminds her of a big blue house with baking cookies in the oven and kids everywhere.

Bethany and Grandpa

I have to remember that my Bethany is a gift.God made her in His Image and she was given to me because He knew that we would be the right fit.I know now that she is doing important work and she is a soldier.She may be a world traveler but I know her heart is always where her family is.Her beginning in this world came from another woman but she is ours.She was the pride of her Grandpa and is a sweetheart in our family.I don’t want her so far away but I am so proud that she is serving our country.

She knows how to swim in the ocean and she can shoot a gun.She knows about airplanes and how to command respect.She is so much smarter in worldly things than her mother and I hope she knows that her mother is amazed at her resilience.When she couldn’t do what she set out to do in the Navy she learned something else and was first in her class.

Sometimes I  think of the song Blue Navy Blue sung by Diane Renay from a long time ago when I look at Bethany’s Navy picture that hangs on our wall.I change the words around a bit to suit her and me.

Blue navy blue I’m as blue as I can be

‘cause my steady girl said “ship ahoy’’

And joined the Nay-ee-ay-vee

Bethany is an adult woman protecting our country,but to me she is still my little girl,my baby that I rocked and that slept with her big sister Brooke.I can picture her long beautiful hair flying as she runs down our upstairs steps and I am sad right now because I miss her so.I want to touch her and I want to hear her goofy laugh.I need my baby home and can’t wait for her to get here.

beth baby 001This is the beginning of a Navy girl.Just a little baby in a foster home that came to live in a big blue house with a big sister,brother,mother and dad that thought she was the most precious thing on earth.She is all grown up now and I still carry her around.The only difference is it is in my heart.Love you Beth!

26 thoughts on “Thoughts From a Navy Girl’s Mother

  1. Oh, how wonderful. Like life, huh? Gotta take the good with the bad. I’m sorry for you and yet I can feel your pride and joy and love. I wish for you your heart’s wishes. That she comes home safe and sound, wise and strong.
    I wish for you all the best.
    Thanks for sharing.

  2. Well, this will be my second attempt at commenting- dang wordpress. Wish I could follow you!
    Beautiful, heartfelt and sweet your post. Your love for your daughter sings through your words. Thank you for sharing, I love your blog.

  3. Yet another beautiful and touching post. Thank you for opening up your heart and sharing some of it’s contents with us. Just as Bethany is a beautiful daughter, I have no doubt that she’s aware of what a wonderful and loving mother she has in you. Wishing the two of you much love and shared moments of togetherness.

  4. Liz: What is Beth’s rank and title/position? The reason I ask is our church has a list of all our family members serving in the military and we pray for everyone on that list on a regular basis. I want to add Beth to the list 🙂 Thanks!

    • Kim
      Sorry it took me so long to respond but my internet has been down and just got up today. Thank you so much for thinking of Beth. I am going to write a post about her now that this stupid computer is back in action. She is an Aviation Structural Mehanic in Safety Epuipment. She needs prayer because she is on deployment right now and I don’t like where she is going. Blessings Liz

      • Yes, I’ve been following her on Facebook and I see that she’s “out to sea” Exactly why I wanted to get her added to our list 🙂 I’m looking forward to reading your post about her!

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